Is the countdown on until you tie the knot? How exciting! We’re sure you’re in the midst of all-things wedding planning, from dress fitting to cake tastings to wine pairings and honeymoon plans – it’s a lot! But have you thought about the vows you’re going to read before you say I do?

There’s something amazing about standing in front of your soul mate and sharing the words that will shape your future together. But when it comes to how to write wedding vows, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed. After all, you have this one-of-a-kind love story and it’s hard to put everything you’re feeling into just a few words.

But don’t worry, that’s why we’re here to make it a little less of a daunting task. Whatever your love story, writing your own vows is a beautiful opportunity to reflect on what makes your relationship one-of-a-kind. From understanding traditional promises to weaving in personal memories, these tips will help you craft personalised wedding vows that speak straight from the heart.

Traditional Vows

Before you make the words your own, it helps to know what they stand for.

Traditional vows are rooted in timeless promises: to love, honour, comfort, and protect. Whether religious or civil, these phrases are all about commitment – a declaration that, whatever life brings, you’ll face it together through it all.

When you’re writing your own vows, you’re building on that. You’re creating something that’s extra personal to you both as a couple and reflecting on your unique journey.

Traditional Wedding Vow FAQs

Who says them first?

Typically, whoever officiates your ceremony will invite one of you to begin. Most couples decide this in advance, but it’s entirely up to you.

How long should wedding vows be?

There’s no strict rule, but a sweet spot is between 1 to 2 minutes. Just enough to share something meaningful. When exploring ideas for wedding vows, focus on the heart, not the length.

Do most couples write their own vows?

In fact, recent surveys show that most couples now choose to write their own vows – a number that continues to rise as weddings become more personal and reflective of modern love stories.

Making Your Vows Personal

Making things personal – it’s kind of our thing. That’s why we’re here to help you weave your own tales into your vows…

1. Start with your story
 Think about how it all began – where you met, how they made you feel, the moment you knew it was more than a spark. This memory is the heart of your vows, a reminder of how far you’ve come.

2. Think about your key moments
 The big milestones, and the quiet ones too: the holidays, the tough seasons, the everyday routines. These moments shape your relationship and reveal the promises that matter most.

3. Focus on what makes your relationship unique
 What do they do that only they do? These details will make your personalised wedding vows feel intimate and real.

4. Be real in your promises
 Always give your heart – because that’s what matters the most.

5. Speak like yourself
 Don’t be too soppy if that’s not who you are as a person. Be your authentic self – whether that’s silly, serious, or sweet.

Once your vows are ready, you’re almost set for the big “I do”. Have you thought about morning-of-the-wedding gifts for your partner to open before the ceremony? It’s another lovely way to make the moment even more personal.

Our gorgeous gifts such as personalised pyjamas, engraved keepsakes, or something embroidered with your initials, can make that morning feel even more magical.

Congratulations From Made Yours

Remember, no one else can tell your story the way you can. And that’s exactly what makes it unforgettable. Good luck with everything on your special day!